Never Too Late

In the lives of many couples today, both men and women have lost that sweet love and feeling for each other. This even happens in the best relationships. No relationship is perfect!

However, over the years many have lost that great zeal; fire and courtship for one another. Yes indeed, the bills; personal stress; kids etc…can all bring a couples sizzling love to a complete halt.

However, you must know that where there is hope there is love. True love never dies, because love conquers all. A couple’s love that is so deep can climb over any mountains and cross over any deep seas. Love is priceless, for rubies and pearls can’t be compared to such great love. Love comes from the depth of ones soul and connects to another in a magical way. 

A couple’s relationship should grow over a period of time not for the worst, but for the better. The relationship must be unified and met on one accord in order for the love to last and remain effective in both lives together as one. Love can rekindle any couple’s relationship and make it sizzling once again. It is never too late for a couple to ignite back into their lives together those romantic moments. Those spectacular moments that once included the romantic dinners; horse & carriage rides; dancing under the stars and in the rain; endless roses & chocolates; movie nights; soaking in a hot bubble bath filled with rose petals and sipping on some sweet wine together and of cause the very passionate love making sessions etc…All of this can be rejuvenated once again into your homes and into your lives as one.

          

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"Each morning as I awaken, you are the reason I smile, You are the reason I love."

~Jerry Burton~

The Act Of Love

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Remember when you first met your partner and how thrilled both of you were. Remember when you held each other hands for the very first time and how your hearts begun to skip a beat.  He looked deep within your sparkling eyes and you looked deep within his. At that moment in time, the feelings were magical. Feelings of hearing the sweet melody of each other heart beat and there it was the kiss.  It wasn’t just any ordinary kiss, but that first special kiss was like fireworks!!! It was hot; it was wet; it was perfect!!! That one special kiss will always put that extra smile on your face.

Do you remember that moment? I am sure you do! (SMILE)

Here are a few suggestions that have helped many couples in the past rekindle their sweet love & feelings for each other. I believe that this too will be of great use to your relationship as you both move forward on bringing it alive once again. This list is just a short list that can help do wonders in  getting you back into the swing of things. It is not in any particular order. Select the ones that will be of great use for you and your partner and build upon it and make it your very own.

1.  Share & Connect: Have a romantic meal together.

To do this both couple must agree to plan the whole evening together.  If you have kids remember to let a friend; family member or baby sister watch the kids for you that night and please don’t forget to turn off your ringer and make sure your answering machine is down low or off!!!!

Create a theme for the evening.  Ex: If you always wanted to visit one of the Caribbean Islands your theme would be “Ocean Of Love;” “Hearts Of Paradise” Create the romantic mood for that evening.  Go into Wal-mart or any stores that sell the sounds of nature on CD’s or just go online and download  the nature sounds like the ocean; waterfalls; birds chirping; rain pouring…you get the idea and just tap into your imagination and make it your very own.

Come up with a dinner menu just like if you were to go out and eat at a restaurant. There are all types of cooking recipes online.

You can also add candles to the evening. I would recommend the scented candles, because the aroma arouses the mind and set the atmosphere for that evening.  If you are unable to get the scented candles the regular ones are just as effective. Whatever you do just make sure it is romantic and you are doing everything together.

Dress up! You want to find something in your closet or take a drive to the mall. Whatever works for you! Make sure you look nice & sexy or handsome & appealing for your partner.

Have your special music playing in the back ground.  Ex: Classical; Jazz; R&B; Oldies but Goodies….Whatever type of music both of you like play it softly in the back ground whilst you are having your romantic dinner together and when you are done just dance the night away and let your sweet love for each other lead you wherever the night may end. (SMILE) HINT!

2.  Pamper each other:  Massage is always a great way to relieve any tension and can led to so many different things in a couple’s relationship. DON’T BE AFRAID TO EXPLORE! Caressing is a great form of communication. Verbal as well as non-verbal!

3.  Role-playing:  This is an added bonus that will definitely add spice and rekindle any couple’s relationship. Couple's who are stuck in the same old boring routine will find this refreshing in their lives. This will allow you to come outside of your comfort zone and become whoever you like.  The gratification a couple will receive from role playing is that it’s a whole lot of fun; it is exciting; it enhances a couple’s relationship to a whole other level; yes! It is very pleasurable in more ways than one…..BE CREATIVE! BE SPONTANEOUS! EXPLORE!!!!! The internet is filled with all kinds of role-playing games and gestures.

4.  Show Affection:  One thing I am certain of is that just about every person love to feel appreciated.  Being cared for and loved by another person is a splendid thing. Nobody likes to be taken advantage of or mistreated in a relationship.  So to all the couple’s out there please appreciate your partner, because love is truly a beautiful thing. Show the other person that you truly care and love them.  Wonderful acts of gestures and kindness can go a mighty long way in any relationship.  So don’t wait for the perfect moment or occasion like Valentines Day; Birthday; Christmas etc…to say I love you to your partner. Do it now and make it more frequently, before you end up losing and missing out on the best moments of your life.

5.   Listen To Each Other:  Women are verbal communicators. Men on the other hand are visual creatures. Personally speaking, in the majority of relationships I have seen as well as counsel over the years  I believe that this is the number one down fall that receive very little attention or none at all in a couple’s relationship. However, couple’s must understand that listening to each other with love is the number one key to sustaining and rekindling their relationship.  When a women feels that her partner has met her needs she will be more than willing to go above and beyond to bring complete satisfaction to him in every way possible. She doesn’t want to feel less appreciated, but she want to feel and know that she is special to her partner and that she’s his queen.

On the other hand, when a man also feels like he’s the man in the relationship he will give you his world. He want to be treated like the king of his castle and not like a dog on the streets.  He doesn’t want to be talk down to like a little school age boy who just wet his pants and need is mama to change it. (Smile) Women remember it is not what you say to men, but it is how you say it to them. Change your tune of voice and you will see the change in his response to truly want to listen to you.  Remember couple’s, everything you do…do it in love!

6.  Renew Your Vows:  Couples who have been together for so long and has experience so many things together this is the perfect way to show your act of love for each other.  You must also know that both partners must also be on one accord in order for this to be effective. It will bring a sense of freshness and add a much greater love back into your lives together as one.

"No amount of water can quench the fire of love."

~Author Unknown~

The Binding of Togetherness

Love is a very special gift that was given to us by God and therefore, it should be celebrated every single day of our lives. Giving daily gifts of love to your partner enhances the relationship to grow more healthier and last longer. Those daily gifts of love doesn't have to be expensive or extravagant. Personally speaking, I think the best gifts are the simple ones that speaks volumes, because it comes directly from the heart. Where as; it's easy for a person to go out and find a lavishing gift, but it is those very small gifts; gestures etc... that sparks fireworks in one's heart. It is the detail that is place into those small little gifts and the gestures that are extended that so many of us tend to over look that makes it so....worthwhile. 

The true essence of any relationships are unique in its own way. This makes the relationship interesting and not boring and dreadful. The binding of the two partners personality merging together as one can bring great gratification to both partners if communicated correctly.
As an example: A recipe when combine with the right ingredients comes out very well.  The only time that recipe doesn't come out perfect is when a little; too much or the wrong ingredients is added to it. Please don't quote me wrong. (smile) I am not saying that your relationship is a recipe, but what I am trying to obtain here, is to have you to see "Togetherness" from a different spectrum.
When a couples "Togetherness" is combine with the right amount of ingredients of Love; Joy; Peace; Long-suffering; Kindness; Goodness; Faithfulness; Gentleness and Self Control. It releases a very sweet; sweet aroma in ones heart for the other person.

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"Togetherness is a sweet aroma to one's soul" 
                ~ Love Oh Love ~

There's No Coincidences!

There are purposes, as well as lessons for every single thing in our lives. I have heard many couples over the years say to me, how did they get themselves all entangled up with their significant other? When did their love disappear from each other?  Is there really any hope of rekindling their love for each other? Will they ever have a chance at love again?

All of these are questions that have entered the hearts and souls of so...many people throughout this universe. Many couples as well as singles has given up on love, because of their past hurt and pain they have endured over the years from their partner.
However, I want you to know that all is still not lost. That's right! You heard me....all is still not lost!!! (SMILE) There's still hope for the hopeless; There's still hope for the broken heart; There's still hope to all those who seek after it!
Each couples or individuals has to go through that natural time of healing, before they can move further into their relationship with their partner or before they can move forward into another relationship. Healing of old wounds is very important in the rekindling process of any relationships. Here are a few steps you may want to add to your renewal process.

1. Forgiveness-This requires both partners to participate. One asking for their forgiveness and the other accepting and believing their partners genuine apology. As well as both partners giving their sincere apology to each other and receiving the apology and moving forward into their relationship with each other. One can not constantly bring up burried wounds, it will not be healthy for the relationship to progress into its newness that awaits.

2. Self-Appreciation-Whether you are already in a relationship or hoping to be in one in the near future. It is very important that each person find time to appreciate themselves first, because if you don't how would you know how to appreciate your partner? You probably won't know! Take sometime out to discover the inner part of your very being. I am certain you will be amaze by what you discover. It will give you a better understanding of knowing who you are and what you are able to share with the other person in your life.

3. Gaining Confidence-This goes hand-in-hand with numbers 1 & 2, because in doing those things one will feel confident within themselves to know that there's a great chance things will work out again between them and their partner. If it doesn't, you will still feel confident within yourself to embrace love again.

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"If we really want to love we must learn how to forgive"
                  ~Mother Teresa~

Kissing Techniques

Kissing your partner should never ever be a boring task to share with each other. This beautiful expression should always be exciting and thrilling. Here are some kissing techniques you may want to explore with each other. I am sure that it will definitely add some spice back into your lives together. So go on and try them with your partner, you will be surprise to know what you will discover.

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1. Romantic Kiss-Look at your partner with passion, then gently move in for a kiss with your lips half open. As soon as you make contact, close your lips slowly. Open and close your lips three times then move away. They'll definitely want more!

 2. All Over Kiss-It begins with kissing your partner's forehead, moving down slowly to the nose. Tenderly, with an aggressive feeling, give your partner your best kiss right on the lips. Next, move your way down and continue with your own imagination.  

3.  Butterfly Kiss-Put your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your lashes upon their skin. You can also do this on their lips. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart. 

4.  Lick Kiss-Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual.

5. Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.

6.  Hand Kiss-Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.

7.  Wake Up Kiss-Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!

8.  Tongue Sucking-While French kissing your partner, gently suck their tongue while it's in your mouth. This produces a wonderful, erotic feeling for both! 

9.  Foot Kiss-An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss. 

10. Teaser Kiss-Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.

11. Neck Nibble Kiss-Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.  

12.  Nip Kiss-This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations. 

13. Finger Kiss-While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.

14.  Earlobe Kiss-Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.

15.  The Butterfly Kiss-Brush your eyelashes against a partner while rapidly blinking. It produces a light, ticklish sensation, as of a butterfly brushing one's cheek.

16. Strawberry Kiss-Also known as the Fruiti-licious kiss. Eat a strawberry and kiss your partner, leaving a sweet taste in their mouth. It's fun and a really cute way to "feed" each other.

17.  The Eskimo Kiss-Touch each others noses and rub back and forth.

18.  Belly Button Kiss-Lightly kiss and blow on her belly button. It should give her the shivers and make her have a very sweet giggle.

19.  Angel Kiss-This is a sweet, comforting kiss. Gently and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eye lid or right next to the eyes.

20.  Aggressive Kiss-While kissing your partner, gently bite down on their lower lip and look up at them. Start sucking on the bottom lip to give them a great sensation.

Bubbles Of Love

Nothing can be more soothing and relaxing than a nice warm romantic bubble bath for two. Surprise your partner with a romantic bubble bath...I promise you they will thank you for it...and I mean really......thank you for it!!! HINT! 
Here are a few steps to get you started with that wonderful warm loving bath for you and your partner.
1. Make sure the tub is nice and clean.
2. Set a side two fresh clean towels. This will be of good use after the romantic bath.
3. Fill bathtub with warm water and pore in your chosen bottle bubble bath.
4. Sprinkled with rose petals if desire.
5. Add your special essential oils, candles and music etc...to create the mood your seeking.
6. Place a bottle of wine; two glasses;  small bowl of strawberries and small cubes of cheese with in arms reach on a small table.
7. Turn off all overhead lights and indulge yourselves into the evening and have a fabulous romantic evening with each other.

Chocolate & Strawberries

This sweet sensual delicious treat has been a deep craving for both men and women for centuries. When these two flavors are incorporated and combine together by both partners with some good fine wine there's a burst of sizzling experience both partners will never forget. Nothing says I love you; I need you; I want you; Am sorry...like some sweet; sweet combination of chocolates & strawberries.  

So while you both are at it...ask your partner this question:

I guarantee you they won't resist!!!

 

Here Are Some Covered Chocolate Strawberries:

So tell me do they look delicious or what?