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Monday, January 17, 2011

There's No Coincidences!

There are purposes, as well as lessons for every single thing in our lives. I have heard many couples over the years say to me, how did they get themselves all entangled up with their significant other? When did their love disappear from each other?  Is there really any hope of rekindling their love for each other? Will they ever have a chance at love again?

All of these are questions that have entered the hearts and souls of so...many people throughout this universe. Many couples as well as singles has given up on love, because of their past hurt and pain they have endured over the years from their partner.
However, I want you to know that all is still not lost. That's right! You heard me....all is still not lost!!! (SMILE) There's still hope for the hopeless; There's still hope for the broken heart; There's still hope to all those who seek after it!
Each couples or individuals has to go through that natural time of healing, before they can move further into their relationship with their partner or before they can move forward into another relationship. Healing of old wounds is very important in the rekindling process of any relationships. Here are a few steps you may want to add to your renewal process.

1. Forgiveness-This requires both partners to participate. One asking for their forgiveness and the other accepting and believing their partners genuine apology. As well as both partners giving their sincere apology to each other and receiving the apology and moving forward into their relationship with each other. One can not constantly bring up burried wounds, it will not be healthy for the relationship to progress into its newness that awaits.

2. Self-Appreciation-Whether you are already in a relationship or hoping to be in one in the near future. It is very important that each person find time to appreciate themselves first, because if you don't how would you know how to appreciate your partner? You probably won't know! Take sometime out to discover the inner part of your very being. I am certain you will be amaze by what you discover. It will give you a better understanding of knowing who you are and what you are able to share with the other person in your life.

3. Gaining Confidence-This goes hand-in-hand with numbers 1 & 2, because in doing those things one will feel confident within themselves to know that there's a great chance things will work out again between them and their partner. If it doesn't, you will still feel confident within yourself to embrace love again.
  I do not claim ownership over this picture in this article.    
"If we really want to love we must learn how to forgive"
                  ~Mother Teresa~

2 comments:

  1. Forgiveness and appreciation is very important tool in any relationship.

    You have some great articles.

    Will be back!

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  2. Yes, to forgive and to ask forgiveness I very important in any
    relationship! We hurt others as much
    as others hurt us, therefore we have
    to be willing to ask forgiveness and
    to forgive. And, that is only possible when we keep God in our relationship and when He is in the center of it!

    A marriage is not (like it is often today!) what we can get out of it,but what we are willing to put into it!

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